Screening is a critical step  that often overlooked. It is for your safety. You will spend time alone with a stranger after all, so it makes sense to verify him before the date. As in any business, there are always scammers and abusers lurking around for opportunities.

 

The good news is screening is easy. The not-so-good news is it may require some creativity on your part.  Asking guys for their personal information can be a sensitive issue for some. You should try to make them feel comfortable and secure with an assuring voice. Telling them that is for your and his safety as well.

 

Here is the basic information that you should get from your date:

• 1.     Full name - including the middle initial.

• 2.     Phone number.

• 3.     Primary Email Address.

You can search his information pieces on Verifyhim.com. Our full search will check his information against our deadbeat databases as well as criminal records. If he has been a with many girls, the search will yield some results. We can tell you if he is a cheater or not.

 

Verifyhim.com also searches public records and social networking sites (Facebook, Myspace...) for his information. This kind of information can be very helpful in verifying the guy`s information. You should look for the consistency of his provided information and the search results.

 

Look out for these signs of problems:

            + There are no records of his provided information.

         + All of his information (email, phone,...) seems to be created recently.

         + He has violence–related criminal records

 

There are also signs of behavior problems that you should pay attention to while communicating with a guy online:

        + He sends you a picture of his penis. Yes, there are many sick guys out there.

        + He wants to have a photo of your face and/or other revealing photos (Dont do it, you will regret later).

        + Use rude language...

        + Keep asking too many personal questions over email or phone. You should always protect your identity and anonymity.

        + Asking you for money.

 

 

Online dating can be a wonderful way to meet someone. Taking the time to do it well and protect yourself is a matter of common sense and the best way to ensure that your online dating experience is safe and successful.

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